Emi
For men, a barbershop is a sacred place, where you not only go to get a fresh cut or line up to boost your confidence but also for the fellowship shared with others during the brief time in the barber chair. Men share stories and laughs, talk about women, and even open up about their lives. I took the opportunity while in the chair to interview my barber, Emi.
What I admire about Emi is not only can he cut my stubbornly wild hair with ease, but also his optimistic, yet pragmatic approach to all aspects of his life.
He is currently in a season of embracing life and discipline. “Dropping bad habits, practicing positivity daily no matter the negative circumstances, and being grateful daily,” says Emi. He is set on not falling into the routine of making bad decisions, that one can easily find themselves making with a detrimental mind frame, while in a negative environment. These bad decisions always lead to bad consequences.
In light of his current season, Emi is embracing change by throwing away unnecessary items in his life, literally and figuratively, as he enters a new chapter in his life. Anything and everything from items in his room or workspace that no longer have a use, to toxic and draining relationships with friends, colleagues, and women.
He strongly believes to speak up and say what’s on your heart because tomorrow’s not promised. Don’t be afraid to tell someone that you love them, or that they hurt you, or you are proud of them, or simply share a piece of advice. “What if you get in a car and get killed in an accident and there was something you wanted to tell me but didn’t? You had something for me that I’ll never have for the rest of my life because you didn’t say something,” says Emi.
As our conversation went on and my hair began to take its form, Emi shared another piece of advice. “Keep your romantic relationships like you do your finances, to yourself,” says Emi. Many would think that statement is common sense, but unfortunately far too many of us have been guilty of not applying this to our lives.
Before he dies he wants to travel the world in peace, for an indefinite time period, with nothing holding him back, and not having to worry about bills or any pressing issues.
When asked what piece of advice he would give to his younger self, Emi replied, “Don’t listen to the negative people that are trying to hold you back.”
A highlight of his barber career so far has been opening up his own shop, The Village Barber Shop, as well as cutting Super Bowl XLVIII Champion and quarterback for the Seattle Seahawks, Russell Wilson, while working at Baxter Finley Barber & Shop in West Hollywood.
18 stories to go.
